The broad connotations and various
possible interpretations of the moral culture are often
very difficult for the western mind to grasp because
this is an aspect of Oriental Philosophy which pervades
the lives of Oriental people. In a word, it is the endeavor
and process of becoming an exemplary person such as
Confucius (552-479 AD).
To become such a person, one has to
first find himself and acquire a moral character which
is respected by all. This can only be achieved through
constant practice of mental discipline. Thus, if the
times call for it, the mentally disciplined man can
contribute to the building of an ideal society through
wise counsel to the government and, even after death,
through his everlasting examples.
Confucius said, "to promote the
sense of morality one must treat others with faithfulness
and sincerity based on righteousness, and to eliminate
completely vicious thinking".
Part
One
Everyone of us, as a social being, desires to live in
a free and peaceful society. At the same time, it is
our obligation to build such a society for the people.
I have quoted various words of wisdom of ancient saints
and philosophers for creating an ideal society in the
hope that students of Taekwon-Do use them as a guide
to cultivating their moral culture.
An ideal society, according to LAO-TZU,
is one in which the ruler is of such high moral character
that he can rule naturally, not by interference or fear
but by appealing to the good nature of his people, who
by merely doing their duty can live freely in peace
without fear and anxiety.
Next, a moral society is one in which
the people admire and praise their ruler in gratitude
for his love and the benign disposition he bears toward
his people.
Thirdly there is a "legalistic
society in which the ruler, because he lacks the moral
authority, resorts to various laws to govern his people,
who in turn obey because they fear the retribution that
the violation of these laws will bring." Under
these circumstances, the ruler loses touch with his
people.
Finally the worst kind of society is
that in which the ruler, through deception and trickery,
misuses his legal authority to further his personal
ambitions and imposes his rule upon his people by force
as he deems necessary. In such a society, the ruler
is despised and hated by his people and eventually invites
not only his own downfall but with him the downfall
of the people and the country.
In Taekwon-Do a heavy emphasis is placed
on moral culture, for it not only promotes a healthy
body and keen mind but good sportsmanship and the perfection
of moral behavior. As ancient Greeks first espoused
in their sound mind, sound body, creative spirit concept,
the more disciplined and cultivated the mind is, the
more disciplined and cultivated will be the student's
use of Taekwon-Do.
No doubt the following lessons may
be somewhat hard to fully understand; however, it would
behoove the serious student of Taekwon-Do to read, digest,
and attempt to grasp these very fundamental essences
of moral culture.
A. Return to the basic nature - Mencius
gave the following analogy when he reasoned that a man
is basically good. Even a ruthless robber, coming upon
an innocent child about to fall into a well, will try
to save the child, forgetting for the moment, his intention
to rob the house. This good nature becomes obscured
or completely lost by greed for money and power.
B. Be virtuous - It is difficult to
define what virtue is. However, these are five human
qualities which have been recognized as virtues since
ancient times; humanity, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom,
and trust. To be virtuous one must constantly cultivate
and practice these virtues. Confucius said, "Virtue
is like the North Star. All the stars revolve around
it in an orderly fashion." Therefore, people who
surround the virtuous person, naturally will act for
the betterment of society.
1.
HUMANITY (In)
The ability to feel sorrow for the misfortunes of fellow
men and love them all equally as parents love their
children equally. Confucius defined humanity in the
following ways:
A. To love people, especially one's parents.
B. Not asking others to do what you would rather not
do.
C. To behave with the nature of propriety by controlling
on oneself.
D. To have unbending desire to accomplish what is right
regardless of how insignificant the result may initially
seem when compared to the amount of effort put forth.
E. To value others' honor before your own.
F. To put others' freedom, before your own.
To implement humanity he said one should:
1) Practice utmost prudence, modesty and discretion
in everyday life.
2) Devote oneself to assigned work be it large or small.
3) Demonstrate sincerity with whole-heartedness to others
at all times.
Tae Kong Mang (12th century BC) said; "The heaven
provides us four seasons while the earth has the power
to produce all living things. This privilege is not
reserved for any specific person but for all human beings...
Therefore, humanity lies in the idea of sharing the
fruits of nature with all people."
2. RIGHTEOUSNESS (Ui)
The ability to feel ashamed of unjust acts and to do
one's duty to others.
Mencius said; "for the ordinary
person life and death are the most important in the
life. However, for the virtuous person to and live and
die for righteousness is far more important than life
and death themselves."
Righteousness is well defined in the
act of a certain army general depicted in the book of
"War Manual" written about 2,400 years ago.
A General was taking a break from the grueling war with
his soldiers by a river bank when an aide brought him
a small carafe of wine for his refreshment. He took
the carafe and slowly emptied it into the flowing river
in full view of the puzzled soldiers and invited them
to share the wine with him by taking a sip of the water
from the river.
3.
PROPRIETY (Ye)
Unlike animals fighting over food, a courteous man would
offer another man a piece of bread even though both
were starving, out of respect and good manners.
Confucius said, "propriety must
be practiced for the proper development of personality,
and whoever lacks sincerity in his words, cannot be
considered a gentleman." He also said:
"Frankness without courtesy can be rather ruthless."
"Respectfulness without courtesy can make the recipient
rather uncomfortable."
"Courageousness without courtesy can be rather
violent."
"Prudence without courtesy can be rather cowardish."
Ye is a term describing proper code
of conduct between various social status, for example:
superior and inferior, noble and common, old and young,
rich and poor, etc.
4.
WISDOM (Ji)
The ability to judge right from wrong, not especially
in matters concerning the right and wrong of others
but in matters concerning oneself.
A wise man (Yu Bee) once said to his
sons, "no matter how small it is you should not
do what you realize is wrong. On the other hand you
must do what is right no matter how small it may seem."
5.
TRUST (Shin)
The ability to keep one's words and promises, not only
to one's friends but to everyone in general. Without
trust a person loses all principles and dignities and
becomes a liar and a cheater.
Part Two
How, then, can man discover his own human
nature?
There are two ways by which a person can find himself;
first, by preserving the goodness given to him by God
or heaven at birth, and secondly by renouncing greed
for material things.
A.
Man may occupy two positions in a lifetime
Basically there are two kinds of position; one is the
live virtues given by heaven, explained earlier, and
the other given by man, such as a cabinet minister,
bureau chief, and so on.
Unfortunately man often relies too
much on worldly position which is transient at best,
for what man gives can also be taken away. On the other
hand, what heaven endows us with is eternal. This is
not to say that we reject all worldly things but rather
that we keep both positions in proper balance so that
the virtues of the former position provides guidance
for the proper use of the latter.
In this manner a man will gain respect
and set good examples for others to follow. Without
proper guidance, a person can easily fall victim to
the temptations of personal power and wealth, employing
unethical means to further his ambitions. Ultimately
such a person will become a tyrant, or a dictator and
an enemy of the people.
According to Confucius, a generous
and loving man cannot have enemies. Therefore, humanity,
the first virtue, is like a strong secure fortress.
B.
Greed is Insatiable
He who is content with what he has is the richest man
in the world. On the other hand, if one has everything
and still more, he may yet be poor.
A man who is blinded by greed is not
only given to corruption, intrigue and exploitation
of others, but worst of all, he casts himself in the
position of "friend fighting against friend, father
fighting against son," finally becoming no better
than an animal.
There is certain truth in the old saying
that a truly good person cannot be rich, and a rich
person cannot be a truly good person. According to an
ancient adage, "constant material dissatisfaction
is considered to be the root of all misfortunes."
There is no better way to self satisfaction and human
growth than the constant development of a generous nature.
C.
Be humble
A weed holds up its head in arrogance while a mature
grain bows its head in humility.
Lao-Tzu taught that lofty virtue is
like a deep valley into which all streams of water flow.
A virtuous man will draw the respect of others toward
him in the same fashion while one who is selfish and
egotistic will lose the respect of his fellow man and
become despised and isolated. To be humble is not to
engage in petty squabbles, but to be like the magnamous
river in the low valley which irrigates the farm fields
around it.
D.
Self-criticism
No one is wise from the moment of birth.
As human beings we have many faults
and are prone to make mistakes. However, once having
acquired knowledge we learn to correct these shortcomings.
It would not be impossible to eventually become perfect
human beings. For this purpose, it is essential not
to be idyllic towards learning and continue to be willing
to criticize oneself.
It is said that Confucius and his pupils
practiced self-criticism by repeating the following
three times daily:
1) Have I neglected others' requests because of selfishness
2) Have I behaved with a sincere attitude towards friends
3) Have I inspired others with certainty, while being
uncertain myself
4) Have I neglected to practice virtue
5) Have I erred in my studies
6) Have I avoided acting with righteousness
7) Have I corrected myself immediately upon realizing
my fault
E.
Be Soft
Because light is formless and soft, it can illuminate
and give warmth to even hidden corners.
As water can assume any shape or form,
it can better serve the living things that need to survive.
Once water becomes a part of the ocean, even the largest
ship is like a mere leaf, and its awesome fury when
aroused can conquer the tallest mountain.
If one claims to be strong, he will
soon meet someone who is stronger. A tree, such as a
sapling, can withstand a strong wind when it is soft
and flexible but may be toppled or broken after it becomes
old and brittle. The same principle also applies to
human beings.
F.
Respect of elders
As son respects parents, younger brother respects older
brother, man must always respect his elders or seniors.
This is the beauty of mankind, and
one of the distinctions between human and animal.
Mencius said there are three things
of value in human society: position, honor and moral
integrity. In government, position is considered important,
in a community, honour, and for a leader or advisor,
moral integrity. Indeed, there can be no children without
parents, nor a young generation without the old generation.
A society and a nation could not avoid chaos without
its culture and social order being based on respect
for the knowledge and wisdom of its elders.
G.
Respect the rights of others
To criticize someone who is better, to covet other's
possessions and to steal the merits of others are the
marks of an unscrupulous man.
Mother Nature does make claims to her
domain, yet all creatures within it acknowledge her
eternal accomplishments. To help others develop and
succeed in life is a reward in itself and has a true
value only if nothing is expected in return.
Throughout human history, people who
in jealousy have stolen the recognition due to others
and have stolen their possessions out of avarice have
always left dark imprints of shame and dishonor.
H.
Be just
To be correct and forthright is to live one's life correctly.
Old sages used to say; "To common
men, life is most valuable, and death, most fearful"
However, a righteous man would value justice above life
itself and would be willing to die rather than submit
to injustice. Such notable figures as Baek-E-Sook-Je
of China, Sung-Sam-Moon of Korea and Yoshida-Shoing
of Japan all chose death in defiance of injustice leaving
to their posterity lasting examples.
Baek-E-Sook-Je lived in Chou period
about 2,000 BC. When King Moo toppled the twenty-seventh
King, who was a very notorious tyrant, he refused to
serve the new King, who usurped the throne by force
and not by legitimate process; he eventually starved
to death in a self -imposed exile in the Sooyang mountains.
Sung-Sam-Moon was an important minister
of the King Se Jong, inventor of Han-Gul (Korean alphabet)
in the 14th century. After the king died and the young
Dan Jong became king his uncle Se-Jo conspired against
the boy king and took over the throne. Minister Sung
was later executed because of his persistent protest
over the unlawful act of King Se-Jo. Yoshida-Shoing,
one of the loyalists was also executed in protest when
the Doku-Kawa military government, at the time, tried
to abolish the Mei-Ji monarchy.
I.
Be frugal
Since ancient times, excessive luxury and pleasure caused
the downfall of many kings and nations without exception
and history is full of such examples.
Persons in leadership in particular
must learn to be frugal and live moderately. As the
old adage goes "if the water is muddy upstream
so it will be downstream."
An extravagant leader will affect his
subordinates in this same way and will bring more hardship
to his subjects through increased taxation and bribery.
During the Lee Dynasty of Korea, the king's roving inspector,
Lee-Mong-Yong, while traveling the countryside incognito,
was invited to one of the lavish dinner parties of a
notorious governor. In the middle of the feast he recited
his famous poem:
The sweet wine you drink from the glittering
cups
Flows from the tears of people who toil
The tender meat which fills the dishes of jades is torn
from their aching flesh
Merrier you laugh, sadder they will weep
Louder you sing, more plaintive their lament.
The governor and his cohorts recognizing
the true identity of the poet, became frightened and
fled from the scene. Remember that there are tears and
heartaches of many behind one man's pleasure.
J.
Be discreet
In every thing he does, a person must not be impulsive
or reckless but be patient and thoughtful.
"He who acts without thinking
at least three times, will later regret his action,"
warns an old proverb.
Accordingly, on a matter of an important
appointment or punishment, one must not decide hastily
but must deliberate to reach a decision that is both
fair and objective.
K.
Know true happiness
Lao-Tzu pointed out that nature was based upon harmony
contrasts.
For example, the universe was made
up of two forces, Yin (female) and Yang (male). Other
contrasts were hard and soft, long and short, night
and day, solid and empty, cold and warm, big and small,
beautiful and ugly.
All things in this world are relative
to one another. Misery can only come from having been
happy once and sorrow from joy. The wealthy and the
powerful are not necessarily happy. For every rich person,
there are countless poor and for each tyrant, a nation
of oppressed. Mencius defined life's three happinesses
as follows:
1. Healthy parents and harmony within the family.
2. To live with pride and honor through correct behavior.
3. To educate the young to become upright and useful
members of society.
L.
Let your actions speak for yourself.
Even the ablest orator is apt to err if given to verbiage.
A closed mouth can save a fish from the hook as well
as stay secrets from the enemy. To speak only what is
meaningful is a sign of a cultivated person. People
talk mostly to brag about themselves or to gain advantage
over others.
A man of virtue expresses himself more
through deeds than words. Thus, he influences others
through living examples. In the old days, the truly
effective way to teach was believed to be by the actions
not by the words of the teacher.
M.
Develop peace of mind
A clear pond becomes muddy if agitated and then returns
to its original state when allowed to settle undisturbed.
It is said that calm will be able to
conquer the heat. Undoubtedly you can endure the hottest
summer heat if you sit calm and composed. Conversely,
if you move too much in order to warm your freezing
body you may get temporary relief, but it does not last
too long.
We can attain peace of mind through
meditation, by emptying our minds of all petty thoughts
and returning to the natural state of man. Unlike in
Buddhism or Zen, meditation in Taekwon-Do does not mean
a total divorce from the world, like a dead body, but
rather an active moment to reflect on our past mistakes
in silence and in the privacy of our thoughts, and through
penitence, to continue our self-improvement toward becoming
better men and women. This active thought process in
silence is called "Jung-Joong-Dong."
N.
Be firm of mind
A person of strong conviction is unsuspicious and unafraid.
When proved wrong, he has the moral strength to admit
his mistakes to even the most humble and has the courage
to stand up to the mighty if he believes himself or
herself to be right.
Strong conviction can be gained through
the broad and deep "Ki"-spirit. Ki is a form
of active energy which fills every physical cell and
organ while "Chi"- will is the motivating
force: the former moves, the latter leads. If "Ki"
is nurtured with great care and allowed to grow based
on humanity and justice, its soaring power and outreaching
strength can fill the heaven and earth, enabling man
to reach a new height of great achievements, so Mencius
exhorted his disciples. On a more practical level "Ki"
helps us to keep our minds clear and alert when the
affairs of life become strained and confused, or sees
us through sleepless nights when our loved one is gravely
ill.
O.
Be devoted
As meditation is to the religious, concentration and
devotion is to the artist, and perseverance is to the
laborer, so is moral culture to the practitioner of
the martial arts. In other words a person's unflinching
dedication to his own interest and duty is the source
of life and power. Cultivation of mind, therefore, is
no monopoly of any particular person.
In fact the sincerity and effort definitely
produce the belief and the belief makes one able to
reach the final goal. Moral culture is considered to
be a cultivating movement to make one devote oneself
to his work, whatever it might be, until his life and
work become one.
Part
Three
In summary, we can enjoy a greater freedom of action
by preserving our basic nature while making ourselves
impervious to the temptation of power, money and sex.
A person who has attained this stage of self-cultivation
is sometimes called a "Saint."
It must indeed seem like an impossible
undertaking to a mere mortal. A mountain crossing begins
with a single bold step and an ocean begins with each
small stream.
As ancient proverbs say; "Where
there is a will there is a way." "One should
not look afar, when the way is right in front of you."
"Even heaven can be moved if one devotes himself
to his cause." With a strong will and firm determination,
it is within the reach of anyone who is willing to make
the effort.
This moral culture is uniquely tied
in with Taekwon-Do, not only for the eventual attainment
of the highest goals in Taekwon-Do and the promotion
of power, technique, and self-confidence, but also for
the cultivation of character. Without this, the instructor
would be guilty of imparting a devastating force to
those who could eventually become so enamoured of their
newly found techniques they might very easily become
bullies or use this knowledge as a means to achieve
their personal ambitions. |